You break my heart with tenderness,
And I confess it's true-
I never knew a love like this
til you!

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Sunday, July 20, 2008

WE ARE HOME!


I am sorry I have not posted on here until now. As you can imagine these last few days have been very full. We got up bright and early Friday morning to leave for Long Island at 4:30am. Our videeo camera stopped working (luckily we tested it before leaving) so we drove to Jay's dad/step-mom's house to borrow theirs (Thank God they answered their phone!) We got to our hotel around 1:30 and had to be at the hospital at 2pm. Not much time to freshen up, or even think about what was about to happen. We arrived at the hospital and had to wait awhile in the lobby for K to finish up the paperwork. We were getting VERY nervous pacing, staring at the elevator hoping the next person that came off was coming to get us to meet our son. Hoping and praying he was still going to be our son. Finally it happened. And it was so memorable. I don't really know the perfect word to describe the moments we had with K and her mom as she handed me Alex and we got to know each other better. It was overwhelming, amazing, awesome, and sad.

After an emotional meeting and saying goodbye, Jay and I headed back to the hotel to get to know our son and take all the events of this last week in.

Alex is so wonderful! he is absolutely perfect! We are LOVING being his parents. He has to eat every 3 hours, even during the night to help him put on some weight, so that is tiring but overall it's been pretty easy. We've both eased right into being his Mommy and Daddy. It just feels so natural!


We decided to drive back home yesterday morning. Before we left we went down to the harbor in port Jefferson, NY where we stayed. We took a walk with Alex and took some pictures. We wanted to be able to tell him about where we spent our first day with him.



When we got home we introduced our dogs, Bella and Buddy to Alex and went for a short walk with them. Then family came to visit. We had more visitors today - more family and some of Jay's friends. It was a really good day. Life is good!

It is amazing how instantly you can love someone. But Jay and I are totally and completely in love with this lil guy. He has become the center of our world. And just when I think that I couldn't love him more, my heart grows bigger and I do!

I mean, just look at this face! How could you not just absolutely adore him?

22 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hi Allison,
We have not "met" before but after hearing of your great news and spending the last 1/2 hour reading your blog, I just saw your new posting and had to respond.
I wanted to say Congrats and let you know that we have so much in common and I would really love to be able to chat with you offline if you want. My husband and I brought home our little miracle in May and I cannot believe his is already 4 months old!
Any way, please email me if you would like, I will send you an email with my return address.

Again, CONGRATULATIONS!! Your son is beautiful.

Dawn DiRisio

terilynnh2000 said...

Yay! Welcome home, Alex!!! Congrats. You all fit so perfectly together. Prayers to K and her family. xxoo

Life with my BOYS! said...

Congrats!!! Sounds like you had a great meeting with K and you are well on your way to enjoying parenthood! How nice that you took pics of Pt Jeff to share with AJ when he is older!

Enjoy!

Jodie said...

Oh, I am crying happy tears. Alex is beautiful and you and Jay just look so happy. Congratulations to all of you. Please don't hesitate to call/email if you need anything!!

Rebecca said...

You have a beautiful family. Welcome home!

Anonymous said...

Congrats, Ali, Jay and Alex! I love that name. I checked in multiple time yesterday and finally this morning all i wanted to hear. You guys look just PERFECT together!!!! Enjoy all the time you will have with the baby. He is SUPER handsome. What color are his eyes. He reminds me of Gavin.
hUGS AND kISSES,
Lis, Sean and Gavin

Wondering when you will find us said...

Wecome home family of three!!! :)What a sweetheart Alex is! So cute! God bless you all!CONGRATS again!!!

Michelle Lasure said...

He is so beautiful! I am so, so glad everything went smoothly down in Long Island for you guys. I was nervous for you! I can't even imagine the emotions you must have felt that day, but it's all worth it to bring home your baby boy. Thank you for sharing your pictures with us...btw, LOVE that blanket! Congrats on your new family! We will keep your new family and K in our thoughts daily.

g said...

Congrats mommy & daddy.... he is just beautiful!!! glad all went well and your home safe and sound... can't wait to hear more in the upcoming weeks... So happy for you!

Anonymous said...

Congratulations! What a beautiful family!!!

Jessica & Chris

Carli said...

Congratulations!!!!!!! I am soo thrilled for you guys. He is absolutely beautiful! I am so happy everything worked out for you. : )

Carli

Anonymous said...

have been following your story on FF and your blog. have been waiting for your update! he's a cutie for sure. congrats and enjoy being first time parents. nothing sweeter!

Betty - lurker of the adoption boards :-)
(nwlywed on FF)

Anonymous said...

Hi Ali,

Congrats to you and Jay!So excited about AJ--your little star! How cute is he in that little hat! The 3 hour thing won't last too long and it does get easier.

Love,
Debi, Peter
John, Erin, and Catherine (who all slept the same 8 hours last night!!)

RB said...

Congratulationd! You have a gorgeous family :)

Anonymous said...

I, like I am sure everyone, has been checking in many, MANY times for an update all weekend. I am so happy that all went well and your family is now complete. He is absolutely beautiful, almost angelic. God bless him and his mommy and daddy. A very special prayer for his birth mother is being said by so many of us. I can't imagine a greater act of love a mother could give. Congratulations Alison and Jay!! Please continue to keep us posted and keep those pictures coming!! Hugs! Diane

Anonymous said...

Alison,
Congratulations! You make a beautiful family. I've been stalking your blog since yesterday hoping to see some pictures. Thanks for the update and enjoy your son!

Michelle and Peter said...

I have been following your blog for a couple months now and just wanted to say congrats. He is beautiful.

Michelle

Jeny said...

I just got home from camping, and came over right away. He is beautiful! I am so happy for you, and can't wait to hear how the rest of your journey goes!!

Anonymous said...

Such a beautiful family.
I'm beyond delighted for you.

Erin
(Dreamer_2007 on FF.com)

P.S. My FF.com subscription expires today, and I am not renewing.

Let's keep in touch:
ERINSMITH200@hotmail.com

Anonymous said...

OPPS!!!

It's ERINSMITH2003@hotmail.com!!!

Missed a digit!

Janna said...

I'm just so excited for you guys!! Congratulations...YOU'RE A MOMMY!!!

Janna said...

FORGOT THE MOST IMPORTANT THING...YOUR SON BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!